Embracing God's Love: Overcoming Insecurity (Trail Marker #55)

We have been talking about seven self-destructive habits that can hold us back from living the life that God has designed for us. These include shame, uncontrolled thoughts, compulsion, fear, hopelessness, bitterness and insecurity. Let’s talk about Insecurity. It can make us doubt our worth, our abilities, and even our purpose. But here's the truth: God never stops loving us, no matter what.

Insecurity often comes from past hurts, betrayals, or losses. It whispers lies that we aren't good enough, that we don't measure up. It's a self-destructive habit because it keeps us trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and fear.

I remember a time in my life when insecurity had a tight grip on me. After my divorce, I constantly questioned my worth. I wondered if I was capable of making wise decisions or have healthy relationships. The words that were spoken over me during the marriage added to the self-doubt and fear. Every day I would cry out to God asking Him to renew my mind while providing me wisdom and strength. I clung to His promises more than ever. Jeremiah 31:3 became one of my lifelines: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness." His love is constant and never-ending, no matter how we feel about ourselves.

Biblical Perspective on Insecurity

Let's look at some more verses that remind us of God's view of us:

• Psalm 139:14: "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."

• Ephesians 2:10: "For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."

• Romans 8:38-39: "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

These verses remind us that we are wonderfully made, created with purpose, and loved beyond measure. If you are facing the self-destructive habit of insecurity, there is hope. You can overcome insecurity. A few ways that I recommend are: 

1. Renew Your Mind: Romans 12:2 encourages us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. Spend time in God's Word, soaking in His promises and truths about who you are. 

2. Speak Life Over Yourself: Proverbs 18:21 tells us that "the tongue has the power of life and death." Start speaking positive affirmations over yourself. Remind yourself daily that you are loved, valuable, and capable.

3. Seek Support: Surround yourself with a community of believers who can encourage and uplift you. Proverbs 27:17 says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." We are meant to support one another in our journeys.

4. Pray and Reflect: Spend time in prayer, asking God to reveal any lies you may be believing about yourself. Reflect on His truths and allow Him to heal those areas of insecurity.

During one particularly tough period, a speaker reminded me of a quote by C.S. Lewis: "You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream." It helped me see that despite my insecurities, God still had a beautiful plan for my life. He lifts up the brokenhearted. He is our firm foundation where we will not be shaken. 

Another time, I was struggling with health challenges that made me feel weak and inadequate. A dear friend shared with me 2 Corinthians 12:9: "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'” This verse became a cornerstone of my healing journey, reminding me that God’s strength is made perfect in my weakness. I encourage you today to take the time to complete an exercise to overcome insecurity. Here are a few examples: 

1. Affirmation Journal: Start a journal where you write down positive affirmations and scriptures about your identity in Christ. Read them aloud daily.

2. Mirror Exercise: Every morning, look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I am fearfully and wonderfully made. God loves me with an everlasting love." It may feel awkward at first, but keep at it!

3. Scripture Memorization: Choose one scripture each week that speaks to your worth and memorize it. Let it sink deep into your heart and mind.

4. Gratitude List: Make a list of things you are grateful for each day. Focusing on gratitude helps shift our perspective from what's wrong to what's right.

5. Reach Out: If you're struggling with insecurity, don't hesitate to reach out to me as a life coach. Sometimes we need a little extra support to see ourselves as God sees us. Start your journey with one-on-one coaching. Learn more at: linktr.ee/beingrestoredtojoy

Remember, overcoming insecurity is a journey. Be patient with yourself and lean into God's love every step of the way. He will never stop loving you, and His view of you is far more beautiful than any lie insecurity tries to tell. 

God's got you, and you are wonderfully made!